谈论 红豆糖水

 

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红豆糖水
同学照例又在宿舍里煲糖水.这次是红豆.Mmm煲得无太久.水份充足.很好.稀点我喜欢.甜度也适中.不错.
   红豆糖水.阿嬷以前都几常煲.只是太甜.每次我都吃一碗然后就老豆搞店.后来老豆糖尿.就分开咸甜.依然好大煲.我只能硬着头皮啃.当时还觉得有些痛苦.可能是报应吧.现在将小痛苦转到阿嬷身上.而讲更大的痛苦留给她的亲人.无阿嬷噶糖水吃喇.尽管阿嬷有时的行为令人废解.但毕竟是我阿嬷. 
   猪同我讲叫我唔好睇她直接返去屋企.我颇为感动(:-)已经快是我噶人了).但是.早回就能改变什么现实么.但还是要谢谢猪.若果阿嬷话想见她大孙噶女朋友.我会毫不犹豫带上你.我爱你.
寒风潇瑟
卷起心中的愁丝
刺伤了柔弱的心
一碗红豆糖水
浇洒了心中的焦虑
却掀起我一阵沉思
这碗糖水何去何从
是否受到命运的眷顾
也许没有吧
我不相信命运
也许
病魔没有给命运机会

 

from 拉登’s

just.hope.everything goes softly and smoothly.

 

 

summerize some bagatelles at this week

 
 
busy.lazy.clumsy.unlucky
 
busy.
排球赛.
作业.
时间少.
 
lazy.
天冷起不来.
懒得做作业.
懒得到处跑.
 
clumsy
反应有些迟钝
上课会走神
做题脑子不灵
 
unlucky
逃课被发现扣分
钥匙锁柜子里要撬锁
 
 
also , i hurt my umbrella by myself!!
i always keep it carefully.
but i hurt it on my own..
悲伤
 
 
琐事基本如此.nothing special.
 
 
 

量体裁衣?

 
 
昨天.是我们物流协会第一次活动.
一个讲座.
之所以用量体裁衣做标题,是因为这个讲座专门为大一新生而设,给予我们一些基础的知识说明.
 
怎么说呢.
这个讲座让我很惊喜.
 
主讲人是一个搞物流的专家.看他背景资料就知道他牛了.
可是他并不是我想象中那种严肃的糟老头,架子大大的.
相反,平易近人,诙谐幽默.把原本枯燥的专业知识说的生机活泼.
 
哼.物流.确实是一个潜能,应该说,是一个有无限潜能的好专业好学科.
 
不过我也不会小看我的金融.虽然我对物流有很大的兴趣,但我觉得金融也是我非常喜爱的科目.
 
 
扯远了.
 
之所以惊喜.是这个讲座
not a simply academic lecture, but a philosophic one.
主讲人不仅丰富了我很多有关物流方面的知识,也讲了很多的做人道理以及大学生应该注意的事项.
并且呢,再一次地,提醒了我学好英语的重要性.
 
yep.我觉得,我委实要学好英语.
嗯.目光应该放到全球化这个焦点上.
 
 
i will share some words that expressed me a lot from LiChaoyou who gave me the lecture :
 
 
 
 
正心,修身,齐家,治国,平天下.—孔子
 
牺牲享受,享受牺牲.
 
市场就是战场.
 
幸福=效用/欲望
 
人生重要的不是所占的位置,而是所朝的方向.
 
管理是用人成事.—管理大师德鲁克
 
 
 
so
the lecture couldnt be a better one,could it?
 
i was cheered up
feeling excited.
full of passion about my future
 
 

:)

 
 
虽然好朴素,但都想比个惊喜比个开心你.also this pic is for u.
 
 
life actually likes a box of sugars.
when u got what u didnt want, take it and find its beauty
let in the unexpected
find the source of happiness
then
u will be full of happiness
 
wish u
happy
every day.
 
 
 
 
 

touched

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Reign Over Me
中文译成了《从心开始》
译的很好啊
我深深被这部影片感动了。
朴素简单的一个故事,却包含了很多东西。
charles在911中失去了妻子还有3个女儿,他深深陷入悲伤中,以致于一直颓废不堪,如同行尸走肉。而john则是一个普通的牙医。工作上的压力,妻子的不理解,让john有些迷茫。
有天很巧,john竟然在街上遇到了大学室友charles。john发现charles行为举止十分怪异,生活毫无规律。通过几天的交往,两人又熟稔起来,john了解到charles是因为失去了家人才变得如此。john想慢慢帮助他从新振作。然而charles却对那段伤痛强烈地回避。john于是,慢慢地走进charles的心,帮助他…
整个故事大概是这样。
charles是个很可怜的形象。在片子后面的一幕里,charles终于肯开口谈到以前的事情。
他不断的,逐一的,絮叨着妻子和女儿的一点一滴。含着泪,说出每个细节。
他的表情,是骄傲,自豪,却始终是陷在回忆的伤悲中。
一开始,我很难理解,charles怎么是那么地孤僻,自闭,敏感,歇斯底里。
后来,我知道了。
its all because he loves his family so much that he couldnt be out of sorrow.
还有一段,也是非常感人的。
charles的岳父岳母因为不理解charles的怪异行为而在法庭要求将charles送往医院治疗。
charles原本因为回忆的伤痛在法庭上歇斯底里而被赶了出去,休庭时候,charles找到了岳父岳母,
他说的一番话,真的很动情,他说,
我无时无刻不看见她们,比你们带来的相片还要清晰。我甚至,在我走过的任何一个地方,都能在别人的脸上见到她们。
i know u suffered a lot, but , u just got each other! i am the only one!
我知道你们经历了很多苦痛,但起码你们还有彼此!而我却孤独一人!
 
charles的这段独白,让人深深了解到他心中挥之不去的苦痛。真的,看的人很心酸。
让人欣慰的是,友情可以消缓悲伤的苦楚。
john的耐心和关怀,让charles慢慢地开朗起来。charles慢慢肯接受心理医生的帮助了…
sometimes, all u need to do is just to listen . dont complain urself about others’ sorrow .
just listen patiently and give him more time.
很感动。也受了不少启发。
真的,很好的一部片。
 
还有就是,片头曲
a simple man
放到我背景歌了
 
 
I am a simple man
So I sing a simple song
Never been so much in love
And never hurt so bad at the same time.
I am a simple man
And I play a simple tune
I wish that I could see you once again
Across the room like the first time.
I just want to hold you I don’t want to hold you down
I hear what you’re saying and you’re spinning my head around
And I can’t make it alone.
The ending of the tale
Is the singing of the song
Make me proud to be your man only you can make me strong
Like the last time.
I just want to hold you I don’t want to hold you down
I hear what you’re saying and you’re spinning my head around
And I can’t make it alone
 
 

会议总结

 
 
这是我在团委秘书处工作后参加的院会议.团委学生会新干事培训大会.
我们团秘这次除了策划会议外,整个会议的流程安排,主持,会场秩序,会议进程等等都需要我们处理.
 
我的任务是负责引导学生会组织部的人就坐,还有就是游戏环节的协助.
 
会议一共有200来人参加.规模也挺大.
我们部门穿着统一的部门服装,特别显眼,虽然很丑啊那衣服.
 
毕竟是第一次,我们团秘基本上都是新干事,所以会议中有不少细节问题没有处理好.
幸好没有老师或者是领导在场.
 
哼.
游戏环节,我需要到前台露一露面.虽然是care lare fare的工作,
但众目睽睽之下,还是有点压力的.
 
but ican handle that.
 
总结一下吧.虽然参加的工作不多,可是还是壮了壮胆.也算是稍微段练了一下.
还有很多细节问题没有做好,有待改善.
 
下次的会应该是十一月的读书报告,相信将会是另一个比较大的挑战.
 
多借
拜拜.
 
 
 

just a little bit depressed

 
 
yep.today, it occured to me a little bit depressed.
this is because i got a bad performance when volleyball training.
 
hmmmmm.
i made a few mistakes.
lowclass mistakes.
also,i couldnt strike the ball inside the line.
 
whats more,a guy who is probably from the Legal Studies College, got a excellent showtime.
and he is grade one as well as me.
 
 
these craps came to me together at the same time.
so
i just cant help falling in depression.
 
doesnt matter.
just a little .
i can cope with it.
 
i really need some frustration
to make me stronger for fails and
raise myself in a higher place.
 
so .
keep running.
although depressed.
but
wont fall down.
never.
ever.
 
 
 
 
 

words to live by

 
 
 
i’ve read this article and felt encouged.
here it is.
hope.
it can help u guys out of troubles.
 
 

Ill give you some advice about life.
给你生活的忠告

Eat more roughage;
多吃些粗粮;

Do more than others expect you to do and do it pains;
给别人比他们期望的更多,并用心去做;

Remember what life tells you;
熟记生活告诉你的一切;

Dont take to heart every thing you hear. Dont spend all that you have. Dont sleep as long as you want;
不要轻信你听到的每件事,不要花光你的所有,不要想睡多久就睡多久;

Whenever you say I love you, please say it honestly;
无论何时说“我爱你”,请真心实意;

Whenever you say Im sorry, please look into the other persons eyes;
无论何时说“对不起”,请看对方的眼睛;

Fall in love at first sight;
相信一见钟情;

Dont neglect dreams;
请不要忽视梦想;

Love deeply and ardently, even if there is pain, but this is the way to make your life complete;
深情热烈地爱,也许会受伤,但这是使人生完整的唯一方法;

Find a way to settle, not to dispute;
用一种明确的方法解决争议,不要冒犯;

Never judge people by their appearance;
永远不要以貌取人;

Speak slowly, but think quickly;
慢慢地说,但要迅速地想;

When someone asks you a question you dont want to answer, smile and say, Why do you want to know?
当别人问你不想回答的问题时,笑着说:“你为什么想知道?”

Remember that the man who can shoulder the most risk will gain the deepest love and the supreme accomplishment;
记住:那些敢于承担最大风险的人才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就;

Call you mother on the phone. If you cant, you may think of her in your heart;
给妈妈打电话,如果不行,至少在心里想着她;

When someone sneezes say, God bless you;
当别人打喷嚏时,说一声“上帝保佑”;

If you fail, dont forget to learn your lesson;
如果你失败了,千万别忘了汲取教训;

Remember the three respects .Respect yourself, respect others, stand on dignity and pay attention to your behavior;
记住三个“尊”: 尊重你自己; 尊重别人; 保持尊严, 对自己的行为负责;

Dont let a little dispute break up a great friendship;
不要让小小的争端损毁了一场伟大的友谊;

Whenever you find your wrongdoing, be quick with reparation!
无论何时你发现自己做错了,竭尽所能去弥补;动作要快!

Whenever you make a phone call smile when you pick up the phone, because someone can feel it!
无论什么时候打电话,摘起话筒的时候请微笑,因为对方能感觉到!

Marry a person who likes talking; because when you get old, youll find that chatting to be a great advantage;
找一个你爱聊的人结婚;因为年纪大了后,你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点;

Find time for yourself.
找点时间,单独呆会儿;

Life will change what you are but not who you are;
欣然接受改变,但不要摒弃你的个人理念;

Remember that silence is golden;
记住:沉默是金;

Read more books and watch less television;
多看点书,少看点电视;

Live a noble and honest life. Reviving past times in your old age will help you to enjoy your life again;
过一种高尚而诚实的生活。当你年老时回想起过去,你就能再一次享受人生。

Trust God, but dont forget to lock the door;
相信上帝,但是别忘了锁门;

The harmonizing atmosphere of a family is valuable;
家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的;

Try your best to let family harmony flow smoothly;
尽你的能力让家平顺和谐;

When you quarrel with a close friend, talk about the main dish, dont quibble over the appetizers;
当你和你的亲近的少吵嘴时候,试着就事论事,不要扯出那些陈芝麻、烂谷子的事;

You cannot hold onto yesterday;
不要摆脱不了昨天;

Figure out the meaning of someones words;
多注意言下之意;

Share your knowledge to continue a timeless tradition;
和别人分享你的知识,那才是永恒之道;

Treat our earth in a friendly way,dont fool around with mother nature;
善待我们的地球,不要愚弄自然母亲;

Do the thing you should do;
做自己该做的事;

Dont trust a lover who kisses you without closing their eyes;
不要相信接吻时从不闭眼的伴侣;

Go to a place youve never been to every year.
每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方。

If you earn much money,the best way to spend it is on charitable deeds while you are alive;
如果你赚了很多钱,在活着的时候多行善事,这是你能得到的最好回报;

Remember,not all the best harvest is luck;
记住有时候,不是最好的收获也是一种好运;

Understand rules completely and change them reasonably;
深刻理解所有的规则,合理地更新他们;

Remember,the best love is to love others unconditionally rather than make demands on them;
记住,最好的爱存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求这上;

Comment on the success you have attained by looking in the past at the target you wanted to achieve most;
回头看看你发誓取得的目标,然后评价你到底有多成功;

In love and cooking,you must give 100 effort……but expect little appreciation;
无论是烹饪不是爱情,都用百分之百的负责态度对待,但是不要乞求太多的回报。

 

 

 

the yellow ones are those that i couldnt agree any more.

 

 

 

unexpected

 
 
今日,院体育选拔赛。我参加了推铅球。
我高中三年,每年都参加铅球比赛。并且都获得了不错的成绩。
原本以为,阴盛阳衰的广外,体育,男子体育应该不怎么样。
但结果出乎意料。
 
15KG的铅球,我最远才飞了6.9M。
却有4,5人飞了7米多。
最牛的一个人,更飞出了八米。
 
i was defeated.
entirely.
yep.
unexpected.
 
这件事,让我知道。
外面的牛人太多。
做什么,还是保持着谦卑的态度。
 
哼。
我要刻苦练排球。
在广外杯,还有新生杯里面,
做个低调的牛。